10 Steps to live Happily Ever After

Do you know what all happy and healthy marriages have in common? In every one of them you will find two people committed to making each other happy. You will find a man who cherishes his wife and puts her needs above his own, and you will find a wife who respects and trusts her man. We live in very selfish times. Pop-psychology messages are everywhere in the media encouraging us to love ourselves, do right by ourselves, and generally please ourselves first. If you really want a happy marriage, don't buy into that type of self-centered thinking. Instead, try these ten time-tested techniques and experience the happiness, peace, and tranquility of a healthy marriage.

1. Make time for each other
 It's so easy in our hyper-busy modern lifestyles to forget to set aside a little time to enjoy each other's company. Start a weekly tradition of setting a date for the two of you to be together doing something you both enjoy. Keep it simple. Take a nice walk together. Sip coffee together in a cozy coffeehouse. Talk to each other, reminisce, and get to know each other again.

2. Take time off from each other
Give each other space and time to work on hobbies and personal interests. When you have an interesting project to work on, you will feel more fulfilled and you will be a more interesting person.

3. Make little romantic gestures
 Remember to compliment your spouse. Leave a little love note for them to find once in awhile. Celebrate the day you first met. Send flowers for no particular reason. You should continuously make little deposits in your spouse's emotional bank account. The return on your investment will be incredible.

4. Fight fair Don't argue in front of other people. Don't insult each other or each other's families. Never threaten divorce, and never go to bed angry. Let the little things go, and don't make a big deal out of every disagreement. Before arguing, think; is this really going to matter in the long run?

5. Take interest in what interests your spouse
Watch their favorite shows with them. Read their favorite book, so you can talk about it with them. Encourage them to develop their talents.

6. Listen to your spouse
Husbands, remember that women need to express their feelings. Be a good sport and just listen. Don't interrupt or get distracted. Empathize with her. Let her know that you can relate to what she's feeling. Ladies, please remember that the kind of talk you might like to have with your husband does not come naturally to most men. Just be patient. It's not a good idea to "unload" on him right when he comes home from work.

7. Accept your spouse for who they are
Practice total acceptance. Don't hold your spouse to your expectations; you will only succeed at building resentment.

8. Express your commitment
 In little ways, you can, and should, renew your vows to each other over and over. Your spouse will feel comfortable and secure knowing that you are truly committed to the marriage. True closeness will only happen when all doubt and insecurity is replaced by confidence in the relationship. Let your spouse know that you really are in it "till death do us part."

9. Trust in each other. Don't be suspicious. Don't snoop through each other's belongings. To help ensure the trust, be honest with your spouse in all things. Never keep secrets from each other, not even little ones.
10. Make it your aim to be your spouse's best friend. Appreciate your spouse for who they are. Loosen up and have fun with each other. If you are practicing the steps above, you are on your way to being your spouse's best friend the ultimate relationship in marriage.

You are beautiful

By: Hifzur Rehman
Yes, it is true, you are beautiful beyond any doubt.
Did you know that you are a unique person with a special kind of God gifted beauty which no other person possesses? That beauty is something very personal and individual. You must acknowledge that "hidden" beauty within you to know your own worth as a beautiful person.

Beauty is something that can neither be measured nor can be described in words. It's an impression that one leaves on others and that impression is the true reflection of many fine characteristics of one's own personality. I call it "inner beauty".

If in doubt about your own beauty, you may be suffering from some kind of inferiority complex thus badly affecting your professional and family life. Don't let the negative forces to ruin your life. Be confident about yourself.

Look straight into the mirror and say with full confidence "I am beautiful". Wait and let the mirror say "you are beautiful". On your way to work, shopping or social engagements, keep repeating "I am beautiful" and let others say "you are beautiful". Your eyes, ears, nose, lips and even the pores of your skin must say "I am beautiful". This type of confidence about your own beauty will leave no option to others but to admit that YOU ARE BEAUTIFUL.

This is the time to start a new life as a self-confident beautiful person and achieve success in every sphere of your life. You are no doubt a beautiful person. Say YES with a big smile.

Loving Love

The act of love is the greatest act of all. When love is known nothing can stand in the way.
Worry cannot stand in the way of love. Love is the greatest attribute of life. Love needs help to get spread across humanity. However it only needs the help to begin, then it has the energy to continue on this path.
Memory can guide love through whatever path it needs to go on. This gives it the energy to go through the trials life causes them. Obstacles cause love to be greater as it goes on. This greatness gives the strength to overcome the pain life have.

Time can only strengthen love. Time let's it overcome fear that is set before it. The need for love is reciprocally strengthened through the outputting of it.

Laugh

Laughter is the sun that drives winter from the human face. When you laugh you keep yourself young. Laughter does not vanquish time, it just lessens the effect of it. It is contagious. When you laugh it spreads amongst your accompanying spiritual entities that surround you either physical or not.



Laughter helps whatever the situation you are in. It is like sprinkles of sugar on lemons. Lemons would represent our human problems. Sugar is the fun that is necessary to live a full and happy life.

Love

Love is so freeing. Everything is set free by love. It is one of the thrills of life. Love is the one free thing in life that is more precious than gold. It is the brightest light of all.



It is so freeing from the shackles that hate puts forth. It is an infinite freedom that conquers anything in its path. It can last forever and in all respects it makes all life worth living.

Levels of Love

Love is often a convenient word to describe a passing feeling of the moment, but in its true meaning, is as clear and overwhelming as the air we breath. Love is beyond a word that has many spellings in different languages. Love, like the air, is free. Love is innocent. Love heals. Love has no boundaries. Love is unexpected. Love is unconditional. Love is the spirit of energy.

‘Watered down love’ is in popular vogue. The word love is used as a device to ‘shut it’s recipient up’. What love is and isn’t endless and fraught with infinite opinions. The most meaningless use of love is used for ‘love of the manmade material’ from money to expendable experiences and items like cars, TV’s, movies, sports, furnishings, clothes, food, stimulants, and the like. Not following far ahead is love of attention, success, job, ideologies, religions, fantasies, etc.

The next level of love, which is below ‘real love’, and often very conditional as is those already mentioned, is God, marriage, friends, family, people, etc. Love with most is conditional for the most mundane reasons. Family and friends love over the years is commonly always changing and falling off the ‘criteria of love’. Quality of meaning of love over time separates the ‘real from the momentary love’.

No real, unconditional love is possible without the conscious love of one’s inner self, which nothing can alter. The ‘peaks of love’ are often touched in flashing moments by most but rarely sustained. Self love seeks other love of the same high quality as if ‘mirrored love’. Love on lower levels frequently gets stuck in the attachment to that love, foregoing finding it within. Love knows no hate or even doubt of its existence.

Love is not a shadow that disappears when clouds or darkness appears in one’s life.
Love is an invisible energy that never loses itself. At it’s highest peaks, love transforms all to its highest possibilities. Love of the multidimensional divine that is an invisible presence, and is always providing bliss and joy inspite of life’s challenges, is love at its ultimate. Love is endless in time that transcends all. Love is in the air to breath in, to light itself. The deep ‘breath of love’ is like an endless river that colors and illuminates the presence of the compassion of love for itself.

One way Love Affair

Love is not always two ways, or even convenient. There are many ways to open a heart that gets little attention. Does any heart, even the full one, not pine for more and more love? Is there a heart that is filled with love for life wanting no more? Love comes in all styles and degrees. The love of two people is at the peak of love’s possibilities. Love may involve the physical, emotional, mental and spiritual aspects of one’s experience with another.
Love usually begins with a mother and baby in an unconditional way, particularly for the mother even though it’s ‘dependent love’. As we reach into teen years and adulthood, two independents have the hopeful opportunity to experience ‘healthy two way love’ to the extent that both are willing, and perceivably able. Things may have been thrown in the way of the growth of the open heart. A guarded heart is one that misses the freedom and joy that a balanced open heart enjoys. There are ways to open the suffering heart.
Other than many forms of meditation, one way is to allow loving another silently with no expectation of a visible return of the love. There are no rules on who one can love, or how many. Of course, love for all is a mystical, magical, divine expression of a deep self love. Love is not needy, but does yearn for it’s connection and resonance from another. If one can love one person, the doors of the heart open to many, but with discernment and sensitivity for oneself and any others. Love at it’s peaks becomes ‘personal’, but should never close itself to a personal love for others be it ‘one way and silent’.
During the day pick out one or more that move your heart to open, and send energy (love) to them with no expectation of return. They may be gone from your life forever, or may be someone you occasionally connect with but current circumstances are not, for any number of reasons, favorable to have a two way ‘free expression’. Love one way, beyond the self, is healthier than none for self or anyone. Silent unattached personal love of another is ‘free and healthy’. Always find ways to open the heart even if it’s alone. Self love will open you up and other’s will feel your projection that is from the ‘non expecting-giving heart’. The Doors of Love are always open and free - walk in!

That Crazy Thing called Love

Every popular song is about it, half our books and films obsess over it, and everybody wants it.

But when we come to ask what love is, we are overwhelmed by a myriad different ideas and experiences.

On the one hand, love can lift us up; on the other, it can destroy us.

The problem is further compounded because we generally also feel tremendous love for our mothers, our children, our friends even chocolate. Or maybe especially chocolate.

How can one little word cover so many different nuances of feeling? More importantly, if love means different things to different people, how can we ever effectively communicate it?

Scientists have been trying to define love according to their frame of reference for a very long time.

The pioneering sexologist Havelock Ellis provided a famous but entirely incorrect mathematical formula: love equals a physical relationship plus friendship.

Freud dismissed romantic love as the sex urge, blocked.

(The guy's obsessed with sex)

Social biologists have scanned our brains and identified three chemicals— dopamine, phenyl ethylamine and oxytocin — which they claim attract us exclusively to our mates for long enough, in their opinion, to conceive and give the offspring a secure start.

All of this is mildly diverting, but of no use when someone looks into your eyes and tells you that they love you.

Dictionaries are not much help either. They list almost two dozen definitions — including affection, fondness, caring, liking, concern, attraction, desire and infatuation.

We all instinctively agree there is a huge difference between liking and complete infatuation. What we need is a new lexicon, something to help us negotiate and understand all the different types of love.

Psychologist Dorothy Tennov has already taken the first step towards this goal. She interviewed 500 people from different backgrounds and age groups, both gay and straight, about falling in love, and found a startling similarity in how each respondent described their feelings.

The basic components were:

-intrusive thinking (you can’t stop daydreaming about them);

-an aching in the heart;

-an acute sensitivity to any act or thought which can be interpreted favorably;

-fear of rejection and

-unsettling shyness in their presence;

-intensification through adversity (at least up to a point) and

-a disregard for all other concerns.

Tennov also discovered ‘a remarkable ability to emphasize what is truly admirable and avoid dwelling on the negative’.

Love is, in other words, blind, deaf and completely oblivious to foolishness.

(They needed to do research for that??)

To distinguish between these overwhelming emotions and the more stable, domestic feelings experienced by long-term couples who are only too aware of their partner’s failings,

Tennov coined a new term: limerence.

The obsessive, intrusive nature of limerence would be immediately recognizable to Martin:

‘I met her at a salsa class, the attraction was instant and we ended up exchanging telephone numbers, even though I knew she was married.

‘It was impossible to get down to work until we’d had our morning talk. I’d ache if she didn’t call.’

Twelve months later, when the affair had ended, Martin realized that they had little in common.

He put the attraction down to ‘lust’, yet the affair had been mostly non-intimate.

Tennov confirms: ‘Sexual attraction is not enough. Selection standards for limerence are, according to my informants, not identical to those according to which mere sexual partners are evaluated, and intimacy is seldom the main focus for limerence.

However, the potential for mating is felt to be there, or the state described is not limerence.’

When someone is under the spell of limerence, not even being rejected dampens down the madness. If limerence is returned, the feelings intensify and the couple end up ignoring their friends.

Sadly, these intense feelings never last.

Tennov puts the duration somewhere between six months and two years. This is a very similar figure to that proposed by social biologist Cindy Hayman of Cornell University, who tracked the brain chemicals of 5,000 subjects in 37 different cultures, and found this phase lasted between 18 months and three years.

It is important to have a new word for these intense feelings, for two reasons.

First, it recognizes the normality of borderline crazy behavior in the first stages of love, which could easily be stigmatized as stalking, or pathologized as too much in self-help books such as Women Who Love Too Much, by Robin Norwood.

Secondly, when limerence wears off, some people fear they are falling out of love.

In reality, love has just moved on to a new phase, and many people use limerence as a springboard for a long-term relationship. Arguably, we need this temporary madness, to convince us to set up home and intertwine our destinies with relative strangers.

While scientists have not researched precisely what it is that makes us choose one person over another, they have looked at what makes a good long-term partnership. At this stage we pick people who are like us, or who complement us in some hidden way.

Often, we search for other people with whom we can act out the issues we were unable to resolve as children. Our partners have to speak the same language, or there is simply no connection.

I call this kind of deep, intertwined love ‘loving attachment’.

Unlike limerence it is based on rational ‘eyes open’ choices about compatibility. Unlike limerence, loving attachment dies if it is not reciprocated, especially physically.

Unlike limerence, loving attachment can last forever.

To truly understand loving attachment, it is necessary to clarify the difference between the love for our partner and that for our children and our parents. Popular romance feeds us the idea of unconditional love, and during the limerence something approaching this is often achieved.

However, once a couple has moved on to loving attachment, unconditional love becomes a distant memory.

Most couples end up in my office because one half feels that their love is not returned, and because of that, over time, they have detached themselves from the relationship.
In contrast, the love for our children or parents is seldom conditional. I call this bond loving affection, because affection exists largely independently of how the recipient responds.
The confusion between loving attachment and loving affection can cause just as much misery as the confusion over limerence.
Love is a source of tremendous joy and comfort.
However, it will also be the source of untold pain, until we begin to differentiate between the three strands contained in just one four-letter word.
Maybe this new lexicon can help us understand each other better.

TRUE FRIENDS

Have you ever found a friend


Who makes your heart glow?

Someone who is wonderful,

Who you're honored to know,



Someone to laugh with,

And sometimes to cry,

Someone who loves you

When you don't know why



Someone who just seems

To understand you,

Someone who you love

No matter what they do,



Someone who you

Think of day and night,

Someone who shows up

When the time is just right.



Someone who shares all

Your ups and downs,

Someone you smile with,

Replacing your frowns,



Someone who appears

Whenever there is a need,

Surely you must know,

God planted that seed



These seeds God has

Planted here on earth

Cannot be measured

By earthly worth.



They were planted deeply

In your friend's heart,

By God's love placed

Here from the start.



Value those friendships,

Honor their decisions,

Never try to make their

Dreams your revisions.

Respect their feelings,

Never make demands,

Hold their love tightly

In your hands.



Never be angry if you

Don't talk to them each day,

For a heart can be loving

Even from far away.



Trust in friendship,

Send a piece of your heart,

This is how friendship

Was intended from the start.



Hold their memory

In your heart and mind,

Continue to love

Them all the time,



See them for what they really are -

True friends are Angels

Sent by God from afar!

Power of a Hug

It has been proved that showing affection strengthens growth and positive development in people. We all need physical contact to feel good, and one of the most important ways of physical contact between two people is hugging. Who does not need cuddles in this society that is becoming ever colder, more competitive, that compels us to be more individualistic, more personal-goal oriented...? When we hug, we receive an energy feedback. We bring life to our senses and reaffirm the trust in our senses. Sometimes we CANNOT find the right words to express how we feel, and then hugs are the best way to say it. We need four hugs a day to survive, eight to preserve ourselves, and twelve to grow. A hug makes you feel good. The skin is the biggest organ we have and it needs a lot of love. A hug can cover an extensive part of the skin and provides the massage you need. It is also a way to communicate. It can convey messages for which you have no words. We can always resort to the universal language of hugs. The Power of Hugs



Hugging achieves many things that you might never have imagined. For example:

• It feels good

• It dissolves solitude

• It defeats fear

• It opens the door to sensations

• It improves self-esteem (wow, he or she wants to hug me!)

• It encourages altruism (I can't believe it, but I want to hug that person)

• It delays aging (those who hug age more slowly)

• It helps reduce appetite (we eat less when we are nourished with hugs and when our arms are wrapped around others)

More benefits from hugs:

• It is environmentally friendly (it does not damage the environment)

• It preserves energy

• It is portable and requires no additional machinery

• It does not require a special place to do it (an adequate place to hug)

• In any place such as a conference room, a church or a football field

• It makes happy days even happier

• It gives us a sense of belonging

• It fills the void in our lives

• It is still effective even after the hugging has finished

• It strengthens and increases our ability to share

• It harmonizes the hearts of friends

Hugging creates some form of addiction to tenderness, to altruism, to happiness...









Just as laughter, it is highly contagious! Whatever your hug may be, let it always come from the heart, not from the mind.

Come up with new ways of hugging.

Give your hugs interesting or funny names.

Become a full-time "hug therapist."

Be always ready to offer a hug to someone.

Observe the other person and always be careful of his or her personal space.

Do not try to impose your vision or philosophy on others.

A hug does and says very much.

Hug your friend, your loved one, your kids, your parents, your pet...

To A Child. . . Love Is Spelled T.I.M.E.

By Lance Wubbels

In the faint light of the attic, an old man, tall and stooped, bent his great frame and made his way to a stack of boxes that sat near one of the little half-windows.


Brushing aside a wisp of cobwebs, he tilted the top box toward the light and began to carefully lift out one old photograph album after another. Eyes once bright but now dim searched longingly for the source that had
drawn him here.

It began with the fond recollection of the love of his life, long gone, and somewhere in these albums was a photo of her he hoped to rediscover.

Silent as a mouse, he patiently opened the long-buried treasures and soon was lost in a sea of memories. Although his world had not stopped spinning when his wife left it, the past was more alive in his heart than his present aloneness.

Setting aside one of the dusty albums, he pulled from the box what appeared to be a journal from his grown son's childhood. He could not recall ever having seen it before, or that his son had ever kept a journal. Why did Elizabeth always save the children's old junk? he wondered, shaking his white head.

Opening the yellowed pages, he glanced over a short entry, and his lips curved in an unconscious smile. Even his eyes brightened as he read the words that spoke clear and sweet to his soul.

It was the voice of the little boy who had grown up far too fast in this very house, and whose voice had grown fainter and fainter over the years. In the utter silence of the attic, the words of a guileless six-year-old worked their magic and carried the old man back to a time almost totally forgotten.

Entry after entry stirred a sentimental hunger in his heart like the longing a gardener feels in the winter for the fragrance of spring flowers. But it was accompanied by the painful memory that his son's simple recollections of those days were far different from his own. But how different?

Reminded that he had kept a daily journal of his business activities over the years, he closed his son's journal and turned to leave, having forgotten the cherished photo that originally triggered his search.

Hunched over to keep from bumping his head on the rafters, the old man stepped to the wooden stairway and made his descent, then headed down a carpeted stairway that led to the den.

Opening a glass cabinet door, he reached in and pulled out an old business journal. Turning, he sat down at his desk and placed the two journals beside each other.

His was leather bound and engraved neatly with his name in gold, while his son's was tattered and the name "Jimmy" had been nearly scuffed from its surface. He ran a long skinny finger over the letters, as though he could restore what had been worn away with time and use.

As he opened his journal, the old man's eyes fell upon an inscription that stood out because it was so brief in comparison to other days. In his own neat handwriting were these words: Wasted the whole day fishing with Jimmy. Didn't catch a thing.

With a deep sigh and a shaking hand, he took Jimmy's journal and found the boy's entry for the same day, June 4. Large scrawling letters pressed deeply in the paper read: Went fishing with my dad. Best day of my life!

This article was excerpted from the book To A Child Love Is Spelled T-I-M-E by Lance Wubbels and Mac Anderson it is reprinted here with permission. You may share this story as long as you do not edit the content, leave this link and resource box intact. Click here to purchase the Book from my friends at Simple Truths

No matter one's age...time shared together is love. Always allow time for what's most important in your life...your friends, your family and yourself. You never know how the moments you share together will impact each other and the world!

Kissing Meditation

Deep kissing is meditation. All religions and spiritual nudniks who in the long past have not given any form of raising consciousness that has anything to do with love (‘NOT ACCORDING TO THEIR OPINIONS’), have destroyed the rise of humankind from it’s grave of suffering. Be it the ‘make believe celibacy’ of the Catholic church or any other religious organization practice under the auspices of God’s direction, are all full of unadulterated smelly crap!


Until recently, and now only in the liberal sects of Christianity, have they let up on putting the verdict of ‘fire and eternal hell’ in minds for anything trespassing their subjective borders of what’s right or wrong. Young people are very impressionable and susceptible to erroneous rhetoric from those in positions of appearing to speak for God. Islam threatens death to those who don’t follow the ‘rules of love’ even though they’ve made them up. Even the so called ‘gurus from India’ almost exclusively, have nothing to say from experience on matters of love between two people. All of them just don’t know, and are brainwashed themselves!

Unknowingly in my first teen years, I discovered one of the great unrecognized forms of meditation - kissing. For reason that came natural, I as many others in the Western world, somehow knew when to ‘draw a line’ with sexual exploration for good purpose, instead electing to focus on acceptable safer forms of love’s expressions. Never did I have a clue about this thing called meditation or clearing the mind into awareness. Quite naturally my instincts led to use common sense in romantic ways that needed to be kept from the sight of adults, but was sensitive to nature’s surprises of ‘continuing the species’.

For those years I would spend more hours than I could count in embrace of a girl with kissing that moved all thoughts into another realm of ecstasy. The back dark row in the movie theater was a good 2 1/2 hour opportunity as some movie played much to our obliviousness. Anywhere an opportunity of being alone was filled with kissing and hugging. Only an intense other type of meditation could possibly create the bliss of divine nirvana that happened. Kisses sweeter than the finest wine lasting longer than it normally takes to drink a glass of it were favored! Many beautiful experiences were discovered not without noticing that ‘white lies’ took on a new reason to use for members of either family! Kissing and hugging opens the heart and consciousness above the waistline of meditation! Deep kissing clearly opens a merging with the stars and divine godliness!

Have you Ever…

by Dennis Merritt Jones, From The Art of Being ve you ever spent time allowing your mind to wander and wonder?

Have you ever thought about how incredible it is that you can read and decipher these words and draw meaning from them? Have you ever contemplated in amazement how your body works, maintaining itself to a large degree without any help from you?

Have you taken time to contemplate what causes your heart to beat and what turned the breakfast you had this morning into skin, fingernails, and hair?

Have you ever taken just a few moments to simply stare at a beautiful flower and notice the incredible patterns and colors that not even the greatest artist could re-create?

Have you ever looked up at the stars and planets at night and been in awe of the expansiveness of it all, perhaps even wondering if there might be some other being on some distant planet looking back at ours at the same time, wondering the same thing?

Have you ever thought about what holds the planets and stars in place? Have you ever gazed into a newborn baby's eyes and seen the infinite presence of pure spirit looking back at you and been in awe of the fact that this being just came from the absolute essence, God?

How can you or I do any of these things and not feel like an intricate and significant part of something far greater and grander than the "little me"?

I have done all these things, and I can tell you that, in part, it is what keeps me sane, grounded, and spiritually connected to God, life, and purpose when the world seems to be getting more and more crazy each deaths also includes those times when I tend to get too enmeshed in my own personal trauma dramas. Life is always manifesting purpose; all we need to do is think about the miracle of it all.

So, the next time you feel as if you are getting caught up in the frenzy of the world or your personal life begins to look like a bad soap opera, take some time and consider some of the above questions.
Give yourself the gift of a sacred moment in the now. With great and clear intention, contemplate and connect with the miracle of life, where God is always present.

Celebrate your unity with God...and truly be in awe. The word "awe" is the root from which the word "awesome" comes...and that is what you really are. Not because I say so but because God is awesome, and what God is, so too, are you.

It's just a matter of taking time to think about the wonder of it all.

Sharing Happiness

Two men, both seriously ill, occupied the same hospital room. One man was allowed to sit up in his bed for an hour each afternoon to help drain the fluid from his lungs. His bed was next to the room's only window. The other man had to spend all his time flat on his back. The men talked for hours on end. They spoke of their wives and families, their homes, their jobs, their involvement in the military service, where they had been on vacation.




Every afternoon when the man in the bed by the window could sit up, he would pass the time by describing to his roommate all the things he could see outside the window. The man in the other bed began to live for those one hour periods where his world would be broadened and enlivened by all the activity and color of the world outside.



The window overlooked a park with a lovely lake. Ducks and swans played on the water while children sailed their model boats. Young lovers walked arm in arm amidst flowers of every color and a fine view of the city skyline could be seen in the distance. As the man by the window described all this in exquisite detail, the man on the other side of the room would close his eyes and imagine the picturesque scene.



One warm afternoon the man by the window described a parade passing by. Although the other man couldn't hear the band - he could see it in his mind's eye as the gentleman by the window portrayed it with descriptive words.



Days and weeks passed.



One morning, the day nurse arrived to bring water for their baths, only to find the lifeless body of the man by the window, who had died peacefully in his sleep. She was saddened and called the hospital attendants to take the body away. As soon as it seemed appropriate, the other man asked if he could be moved next to the window. The nurse was happy to make the switch, and after making sure he was comfortable, she left him alone.



Slowly, painfully, he propped himself up on one elbow to take his first look at the real world outside. He strained to slowly turn to look out the window beside the bed. It faced a blank wall. The man asked the nurse what could have compelled his deceased roommate who had described such wonderful things outside this window. The nurse responded that the man was blind and could not even see the wall.



She said, "Perhaps he just wanted to encourage you."

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Most times we are unaware...but there are angels...everywhere ....

Kindness

Joy has to spread as fast as a virus. If it does not anger shall dominate the world. Anger is the most virulent disease.

Kiss

A kiss is one of the most intimate and sensuous things you can experience with another person. Unfortunately, while there’s no “right” way to kiss, many people experience anxiety about kissing or don’t know how to ask for a kiss.




1-Be kissable. Use lipbalm, especially if your lips tend to get dry and chapped. Soft, silky smooth lips are simply more inviting. Most importantly, nobody wants to kiss someone with a stinky mouth, so carry some breath mints or gum with you, especially if you’re going out on a date. Breath mints are preferable, because you can use them in a pinch and not have to worry about getting rid of them. Also be sure to stay well hydrated; a dry mouth usually will smell worse. Of course, make sure you don’t have anything stuck in your teeth, either.

2- Test the waters. Pay attention to signals that the other person is into you and is ready for a kiss. Does he or she seem comfortable touching you. Do they brush up against you or frequently enter your personal space with playful, innocent touches. Has the subject of kissing or love come up in conversation? If you haven’t noticed any of these signals, but the person does seem “into you,” try discreetly and innocently breaking the touch barrier (guys will generally be very receptive to this, many girls will not) or bringing up kissing when you’re talking. The key is to be subtle and to watch the other person’s reaction.

3-Wait for the right moment. There’s usually no hurry for a kiss, especially a first kiss with someone, so be patient and wait until the mood is right. Some good times are at a romantic movie after or during an onscreen kiss, walking in the moonlight, or during a particularly intimate conversation. Wait until the two of you are alone so that the other person will feel more comfortable and so that nobody will see if your attempt to kiss is rejected.

4-Get permission for the kiss. You usually don’t have to ask if you can kiss someone, but you do need to make sure your partner is willing to kiss you. The easiest way, of course, is to ask, but it just makes things awkward so don't . Ask “May I kiss you?” or say “I’d like to kiss you,” and lean in right away. Many girls (and guys) don't want to be asked: they prefer that you be confident enough to take a risk and just go for it. One way to do so is to stop whatever you’re doing and silently look into the person’s eyes for a moment or two. If your partner's eyes drift down to your lips that’s a pretty good sign that he or she is ready for a kiss—chances are the reaction may be subtler, however. Another good way to get permission is to just lean in and try to kiss the person or gently pull him/her toward you for a kiss. If the person pulls away at any time, he or she is not ready for a kiss.

5-Approach for the kiss. Approach slowly and smoothly. Depending on your starting position you may need only to turn your head, or you may need to lean in a bit. You may want to use your hands to gently urge your partner’s body or head into position—you just want to guide his or her movement a little, you don’t want to forcibly move any part of his or her body or hold your partner in an uncomfortable position—but in general you just want to position yourself correctly and let your partner meet you. As you near your partner’s lips, maintain eye contact. You may want to close your eyes after your lips meet to heighten the sensuality of the kiss (and to avoid staring at the pores on his or her face).

6- Kiss gently. There are many kinds of kisses, from quick pecks to sweet, passionate kisses. There’s a time and place for all of these, but your first kiss with someone should be gentle and romantic. Don’t press your mouth onto your partner’s--just let your lips meet--and don’t try to push your tongue into his or her mouth. A soft, closed-mouth-to-closed-mouth kiss is perfect. Break the kiss for a moment, keeping your head close to your partner’s, and if your partner moves to kiss you back or seems to like it and doesn’t pull away, go in for another, longer, but still gentle, kiss.

7-Make the kiss the reason for the kiss. A lot of people (mostly men) seem to treat kisses as nothing more than a prelude to something else, and will try to quickly move into French kissing or start putting their hands in inappropriate places. Good kissers concentrate on the kiss, and they kiss, at least seemingly, expecting nothing more. Enjoy the experience, and don’t move too fast.

8-Let your partner participate in the kiss. Good kissing requires give-and-take, so read your partner’s body language and pay attention to clues (sighs or moans) that tell you you’re doing something he or she likes. Let your partner kiss you back, and move with him or her as long as you’re comfortable with what he or she is doing.

9- Breathe. If you’re kissing for an extended period, it’s easy to forget to breathe. Gasping, however, or turning blue is not romantic. Take small breaths through your nose as you kiss. You do not forget how to breathe!

10-Use your hands. While you should keep your hands polite, especially on a first kiss, you don’t necessarily want them just dangling at your sides. Embrace your partner, cup his or her face very gently in your hands, or run your hands through his or her hair. Another turn on for the first kiss is to gently caress their shoulder while you kiss. It shows you are comfortable with him/her. Don't forget your manners!

17 signs you like someone

17 signs you like someone


this is how u know u like/love someone



SEVENTEEN:

You look at their profile constantly.



SIXTEEN:

When you're on the phone with them late at night and they hang up, you still miss them even when it was just two minutes ago.



FIFTEEN:

You read their Texts and Ims Over and over again.



FOURTEEN:

You walk really slow when you're with them.



THIRTEEN:

You feel shy whenever they're around.



ELEVEN:

When you think about them, your heart beats faster but slower at the same time.



TEN:

You smile when you hear their voice.



NINE:

When you look at them, you can't see the other people around you, you just see him/her.



EIGHT:

You start listening to slow songs while thinking about them.



SEVEN:

They're all you think about.



SIX:

You get high just from their scent.



FIVE:

You realize you're always smiling when you're looking at them.



FOUR:

You would do anything for them, just to see them.



THREE:

While reading this, there was one person on your mind this whole time.



TWO:

You were so busy thinking about that person, you didnt notice number twelve was missing



ONE:

You just scrolled up to check & are now silently laughing at yourself.



NOW MAKE A WISH. YOU KNOW YOU WANT TO.......

The Aftermath of Your Love

I still own the house that we used to share,
I see your shadow, but you're never there
I've rearranged the furniture and yet,
The way that it was I can't seem to forget.
I've taken down all the pictures of us,
And still I remember and endlessly fuss.
I still feel your presence behind every wall,
As if you were hiding, like a child, from it all.


I still see you when day turns to dusk,
"Just my imaginings," I say in disgust.
Even after all the years in between,
You still are a part of all of my dreams.



Even though you haven't ever come home,
My heart it still races when I hear the phone.
I've re-painted each room, and still they remain,
A reminder as if they all whisper your name.

My roommates are still the dog and the cat,
Still confused, they wonder where you are at.
The neighbors have moved, life has moved on,
Except for my life, it hasn't moved since you've gone.

I still hold the same job, at still the same pay,
Nothing much has changed since you've been away.
I still only have my one friend from before,
I'm not into company very much anymore.

I'm not into living, or loving, or life,
Now that, my darling, I'm no longer your wife.
I've tried to start over but I don't have the will,
But I own every memory of our marriage still.
I still picture you pouting just like a child,
I still see your dimples and the way that you smiled.
I still hear your laughter, and your sweet melody,
I just can't understand why you ever left me.
They tell me I'm mourning and that I still grieve,
But I don't understand just why did you leave?
Why did the Lord take you ~ I needed you so
and, darling, I still find I can't let you go.


Minus you, sweetheart, I'm nothing I find
My heart's become barren and cold over time.
I have tried to forget you ~ I've tried to move on
But darling I can't... My purpose is gone.


Friends tell me that I'll find true love again
but for now I would settle for just one true friend.
Someone who knows what my life feels like now
Someone, I guess, who has "been there" somehow.

As another dawn rises ~ a new day is here
yet for me it just holds more pain and more fear
And that empty pit I now own where once was my heart
it's drowning in misery and breaking apart.


Widows and widowers all know how I feel
As though it's a dream and not truly real
Our legs keep on walking as we "soldier on"
But we're no longer living when our loved one has gone.....







Love and Light,



Donna Wallace

a.k.a Gentle-Daydreamer

No Show Love

The thing to know about love, is that it’s sometimes a lonely one way street with no lamp posts to guide the way. How to light the way when no one is there to show the way? Walking alone into the alone doesn’t need to be a lonely path even if the love seems so far away. ‘One way love’ may be passing by what the heart yearns for. Lose the mind and, find the answer in the heart where love is always smiling in hiding. Don’t make yourself crazy and, find out who you really are and, not who you have grown accustomed to think who you
falsely are. In the darkness of the nite of the soul, there are always stars guiding the way until the dawn of a new day and, a new way. Love always comes back around, so make it a total love that comes back around ‘cause ‘less than full love comes back too’! “The worst in Life is ‘attachment’ ...it hurts when you lose it. The best thing in life is ‘loneliness’, because it teaches you everything and, when you lose it, you get everything”.

Love from those who struggle to love themselves, is at best wonderful in the moment but like the falling snow that turns to cold rain. One who has deep self love always is protected from ‘retractable’, momentary love. Fear, as in fear of abandonment, lurks like a shadow with love that begins as a glowing star. Night falls on
insecure love sometimes with the slightest provocation. Always let go totally and the love you feel will follow you through ‘love’s goodbye’. People enter into our lives with lessons to give and, love to embellish the heart. Love’s loss is the clearing of an opportunity for a fresh love to warm the heart but, only when the ‘no show’ love is but a pleasant memory and, not attached to. ‘No show love’ also happens to the person not showing up usually for the rest of their life, so have compassion for those that walk away into the night. The
night’s are ultimately cold and lonely as the stars fade ever so quickly leaving emptiness. Sending warm thoughts keep one’s heart also warm. Why settle for half way love when once love is deep and genuine, it feeds the heart forever.

The Journey toward Soulmate Reunion

By DL Zeta
There are many in the world who live alone inside their hearts, longing for "the other" they believe will end their loneliness and transform their world to a place of love and fulfillment. This is the search for the soulmate. Much is written about this search for the beloved, but much of what is said about soulmates is in reverse.



To seek one’s soulmate in the outer world is to misunderstand this urge for communion that flickers inside every heart. Each being is the sum of two halves, the first being the conscious, physical manifestation, and the second, the unseen, spiritual aspect. When these two halves unite within consciousness, they constitute a whole being. “As above, so below” is a basic truth that helps decode many situations. It is true as well with soulmates. The conscious and subconscious minds are the true soulmates. When a person unites these, they are united in physical reality with one who is a reflection of their inner soulmate.



The Un-unified Consciousness



The person who has not yet united these two aspects of their own consciousness will draw into their lives others who have not yet unified their own consciousness. Instead of sharing a sense of wholeness, these two beings will have in common a sense of lack and longing that no one can ever fill. Such relationships are created at the soul level as a learning experience. Often this experience inspires them to search for answers. If you are in relationship and you feel lonely, this is an indication you have not yet come into a clear understanding of soulmates. A relationship with another is merely a reflection of the inner soulmate reunion; it is not the soulmate reunion itself.



This outer quest for the soulmate will continue until one learns to transform their outer quest to an inner quest. The inner quest will in time unite the physical and spiritual aspects of their being. It’s when we reach a state of inner unification we cease longing for another to transform our life.



This is paradoxically when a person appears as a reflection of one’s unified self. In this way, everyone in your life is reflecting to you some aspect of your self.



Harmonizing the Conscious and Subconscious



So how, you may ask, does one go about harmonizing these two aspects of their being? This is done by setting one’s intention to do so, and asking one’s intuitive guidance to bring awareness to the many opportunities for direct communion each day. One of the ways your subconscious speaks to you is in your dreams. Remember, write down and work with your dreams to begin receiving these important transmissions. Spend time each day meditating in silent communion with your spiritual self. Spend time in nature listening to the still, small voice within, for this is the voice of your spiritual self. A busy mind over-invested in the physical world will never find time to unite with its spiritual self.



Once the intention to unify your “selves” is in place, you begin to create an energetic field that grows and expands with every step you take towards inner harmony. When you unite with your spirit, you begin to harmonize with all your selves across time. Since all-time exists simultaneously, your selves are manifested in different timeframe dimensions at once.



As you harmonize with these other "selves," you also harmonize with the souls who have played the role of your soulmate throughout time. The "other" who comes into your life to reflect the union of your physical and spiritual selves can be one of a number of souls along an energetic spectrum.

In The Rush of Life, You may miss the Important Things

A weary mother returned from the store,
Lugging groceries through the kitchen door.
Awaiting her arrival was her 8 year old son,
Anxious to relate what his younger brother had done.


"While I was out playing and Dad was on a call,
T.J. Took his crayons and wrote on the wall!
It's on the new paper you just hung in the den.
I told him you'd be mad at having to do it again.
She let out a moan and furrowed her brow,
"Where is your little brother right now?"
She emptied her arms and with a purposeful stride,
She marched to his closet where he had gone to hide.
She called his full name as she entered his room.
He trembled with fear--he knew that meant doom!
For the next ten minutes, she ranted and raved
About the expensive wallpaper and how she had saved.
Lamenting all the work it would take to repair,
She cndemned his actions and total lack of care.
The more she scolded, the madder she got,
Then stomped from his room, totally distraught!
She headed for the den to confirm her fears.
When she saw the wall, her eyes flooded with tears.
The message she read pierced her soul with a dart.
It said, "I love Mommy," surrounded by a heart.
Well, the wallpaper remained, just as she found it,
With an empty picture frame hung to surround it.
A reminder to her, and indeed to all,
Take time to read the handwriting on the wall.

Raw Politics of Love

Compromise doesn’t belong in ‘love’! Why compromise love? Does love require one to tolerate? Is not ‘to tolerate’ a form of grudgingly accepting something? Why compromise and settle for less than wanted? You compromise or tolerate situations or people when the love is ‘thin’ or, perhaps better said, ‘superficial’. How many join in a partnership of marriage as a form of ‘compromise’? Love is a merger of two souls of unrelenting love.


Love needs no compromise.



When ‘love’ fades, as it usually does inspite of declarations otherwise to please the situation or, others, the ‘juice’ that seemed to be there once becomes diluted with a return to the old habits prior to the connection so that two people are not loving the same person that they began with. When love is strong, often in the beginning, it’s real.

Later when people fail to stay in ‘conscious love’, the old patterns begin to seep in. Those patterns lack empathy, compassion, integrity, mutual admiration and, absence of the ‘fear of closeness’.



If you were me and, I were you, would there be any questions of compromise and tolerance or, would everything just be ‘insync’? There is no question of differing views melting into harmony where all would ‘just be’. It’s always ‘hello friend’, I am you and you are me in the darkest or lightest of moments. All separations disappear except when one needs to just ‘be’ for the good of the ‘we’. Decisions are made from the aware heart for the benefit of the one.



Love is a many sided affair but, when merged as one, it’s a never ending ‘love affair’. Between the eyes of love there is a certain melody to always play wherever things go.

Down on the ‘playground of the earth’ in winter, spring, or, summer there is no politics in love to make it ‘fall’. There is one soul, in you and wherever or, whomever it meets, it’s still the same one following you to meet. Look ahead, laugh and smile, love is always at your side ready to jump inside.

Arhata

Light Shining through

Let your spirit shine through all the darkness that is in front of you. It can always do this with belief as its main ammunition. Nothing can pull you down if your intentions are true.

Your spirit is meant to be shining like a star. Shining so bright never burns out. It can last forever with love as its guide.

Love guides it through such beautiful scenes of light.

Music

Music relaxes every creature. It has a magical quality about it. It relaxes every argument. Thus, music is one of the great powers within life. It even has the power to save lives. Its rhythmic composition can do wonders in anything that it touches. To prove this you can listen to the excitement within the musical compositions of orchestras.

Its soothing rhythms’ replace the racket of everyday life and calms you down or invigorates you. There are different types of music as well as different ways of producing music. It creates a rhythm to help your life achieve a harmonious balance.

It has these different melodies which we all get our own thing out of. This unique experience helps us to express ourselves in a tremendous way. It harmonizes all aspects of life, so we all can see clearly without distraction.

You're Passion

Those things you love and those things you can't stand both points to a powerful part of you. They point to your passion. Passion gives real power to whatever you do. Passion pushes you in a fulfilling direction that holds true meaning for your life. With passion for the goal, you'll find a way to make it there.

When passion is driving your actions, you can successfully work through any obstacle. Your authentic passion is nothing to be ashamed of. For it connects with the very core of the beautiful and unique person you are. Let your passion come to life. The more fully you express it, the more quickly you will move toward the fulfillment of your deepest desires. In your passion is you’re very own special reason why. Hold it close and keep it burning brightly, for in your passion is the drive to reach your dreams.

True Friends

True Friends are so hard to come by, so rare, so special. They all have their down falls, however through it all, there are so attuned to each other it is marvelous to be in their company. You look forward to getting out of bed and seeing their smiling face.



Even if you talk to them from time to time, and share you smiles with them. You should always stay in contact no matter what you do with your life.



For if you don’t and go astray, your ideas will not connect. You will end up not losing only a friend, even worse a companion in this race. For it is labeled the human race for some other reason than that we all share our humanity, as a commonality, but so much more.



Who will find the reason first? Does it really matter? Of course it does not correct. Then, why may I ask are we fighting so? For respect, land, or power, is that clear enough? I sure hope it is.

Passions

Those things you love and those things you can't stand both point to a powerful part of you. They point to your passion. Passion gives real power to whatever you do. Passion pushes you in a fulfilling direction that holds true meaning for your life. With passion for the goal, you'll find a way to make it there.

When passion is driving your actions, you can successfully work through any obstacle. Your authentic passion is nothing to be ashamed of. For it connects with the very core of the beautiful and unique person you are. Let your passion come to life.

The more fully you express it, the more quickly you will move toward the fulfillment of your deepest desires. In your passion is your very own special reason why. Hold it close and keep it burning brightly, for in your passion is the drive to reach your dreams.

Seeds of Love

When love is planted, no matter where, it will grow. To new heights it will always grow, no matter what. It always seems to overcome each and every obstacle life sets before it.



It is unstoppable. In fact, nothing can ever stop it. Love can be slowed; however it cannot totally be halted.



Its excitement will last and overcome overcome everything. Love is the strongest.

Relationships

Everybody loves having relations with someone. Why is their so much of a fuss for getting one started? All of society is based on this as a matter of fact.



Relations with others are not so easy to maintain as you would think they are.



We all need to socialize, be it through reading, writing, speaking, or anything elsewhere you communicate to get your thoughts. We just have to be careful on how we choose to socialize, because the method we use could cause conflicts galore.



It is important to go with the flow on some things, yet not to be so absent as to do whatever comes our way. In that we are participating in the human struggle directly.



Individual choice keeps us unique to all others. Dealing with your obstacles throughout life takes a tremendous amount of power, both physically and mentally.



You have the ability to choose your own path however you have obstacles that need to be balanced as well at the same time.



Living is like a huge balancing act. Anger is sometimes a lack of balancing in either direction. Sickness is another one of some greater importance.



Getting through life is crucial to living. We all have a choice; different paths to follow. We have to stay even tempered the most time that is possible, for our well being as well as well as others.



Choosing your own path gets us different places throughout life. It is important that you remain true to your goals. Even if the goal changes try the best you can to remain as true to it as possible.



Remaining true gives you power, which is a positive energy. It makes accumulating energy all the more easier for you.



Relationships need to co-exist with all this. The more the communicate this all, the more positive they will grow by producing the most good energy they are able to. The more positive they they grow the more happiness they will let you produce.

Positive Energy

Positive energy is very difficult to maintain throughout life. It is because there are so many obstacles we all have to survive occurring all at once. We all have to be joyous as to not take it so seriously, laugh all you can and have fun as much as possible. You end up where you end up; if it goes according to your plan for the entire energy wave that we are on, if it works out differently at least we are enjoying the ride throughout life.



No matter the struggle we go through; if consciously or unconsciously, just enjoy it. For that is, all we can do. When you enjoy yourself, similarities appear more and more, leading to further enjoyment. Attraction works its wonders mysteriously. However it always is for the best of every situation.

Music

Music always draws us together. Through life’s tragedies it is always there. As long as you care, it is always there.
It always exists no matter what predicament you find yourself in. It always can help you find a way. It can also help your life no matter what.
We can always feel the music in your soul. It can see you through it all, no matter what.
Music is the harmonic connection between all of us. It is the beauty of all life in the harmonic connection of all existence.
Music is nature’s way of communicating through all of life. It is what you feel when you wake up. It is responsible for all that we do. We all love music. However some of us love it more then we love food.
Memories are good. Living a full life is better. All of life is worth every amount of happiness. Memories drive us to greatness as well as life worth living.
Music causes life to go forward. It is a fantastic way to live your life. If music is your passion then all life will open to your passions and will be ecstatic with results.
Music is very mysterious. It brings us all together in a magical way. We all have to feel our musical value within life.
It has a magical way of bringing us all together. We can always escape in our music and it will lead us out of all situations as well as to such greatness.

All of life is magical and it always has qualities that astound us. Throughout all life it will lead us all to a better more harmonious existence. It leads us all to so much greatness through all of life’s great obstacles, which will make us who we are meant to be.
It unites all people through a magical harmonious quality. In essence it is all of life. Through the entire trauma we go through there is such an eccentric quality of our life which is known as destiny which music makes harmoniously clear. It also brings about a feeling of such good will that it can only bring about that is naturally of such greatness,

Love Variable

Love is one of the greatest variables that differs sentient being technology. Although technology was created by humans it doesn’t have the capacity to love so show appreciation.
Love cannot exist without equality as well as equality can’t exist without love. Love has its limits within itself though. Love and equality are so comingled that it’s hard to see the difference

Why is love such a struggle?

Why are we so distrusting of everyone? We should trust people until they give us a reason not to. Love is so hard to find, but this lack of trust makes it almost impossible. I guess it has so many variables that differs sentient being from technology. Although technology was created by humans it doesn’t have the capacity to love so show appreciation.

Openness

Being open usually goes with being honest. When the truth is so difficult to get across; either way if your open or honest to much, you will not get your point across. Either way if you are not open as well as honest, you will not get your point across.

For example, say the truth was a piece of gum. You would have to chew more and more to get the true flavor. If you chewed to much it would start to lose its flavor.



That is in essence what the truth is like. It is like the more you pursue the truth the better it gets, until it takes a turn for the worse. We have not figured out where that turn is, and it is getting worse everytime we try to go look for it. Since we start rushing, that could be what makes it get worse. However if we go slowly, the more the possibilities inhance, however the more mistakes we can make.

Forgiveness

How quickly do you do tell your story when you someone new?

It depends on the person, how free their mind is, or how comfortable I feel. Acceptance is a key as well. Love does equal all these things and more to me. They all are abundantly similar and useful in their own right, but together they are stronger than anything.

How often do you think about the person who has done you wrong?

That is a difficult question because it is so hard for me to sort out my feelings but I believe once a year for my biological parents case is enough.

How has withholding forgiveness affected other relationships in your life?

Withholding forgiveness has encouraged me to better myself in small ways in school, however not to the measurable standards of others.

Observe Beauty

When you slow down long enough to notice the details around you, you will awed by the beauty and abundance of this world. This is a splendid time to express your thankfulness for all that you have and all that you are going to create in your life. Keeping a gratitude journal is nothing more than writing down a few ideas that you understand each day. This may help you by expressing your own ideas that you are grateful for. This practice of your writing a few sentences each day is for your own reflections.

You will experience begin to look for things throughout your day to write down. Once you get going, the whole world becomes beautiful.

Match Up

People are extremely complex entities. They are so complex that they cannot survive singularly. They have immense issues which pose a threat of mass proportion. Through being socially enhanced they produce offspring which furthers the problem immensely.
There are an extremely exuberant amount of people in the world, growing at an alarming rate. This is not caused by love as much as a survival need that has been embedded in our psyche from youth.
Every child is taught right from wrong, and therefore if it feel good, pursue. However no limitations have been set or if they were set they were too late.
So the problem of over-population began. It is not just a simple problem; it has led to resource shortages. This is the first problem in a whole array of issues with no immediate solution.

Love Variable

Love is one of the greatest variables that differs sentient being technology. Although technology was created by humans it doesn’t have the capacity to love so show appreciation.



Love cannot exist without equality as well as equality can’t exist without love. Love has its limits within itself though. Love and equality are so comingled that it’s hard to see the difference.

Possible Love

Love makes possibilities possible. They have a better chance of existing if there is enough love behind it. Passionate love is a strong as well as contagious force.
It can accomplish everything when it goes full force as well as being joined by others. You then have a love team, which is unstoppable, but at the same time it is aware of the consequences of the effects it creates.

Love Life for Life

We should not live in fear of anything. Especially something we have no control over. We should just live life freely and have the most enjoyable time we have in and with it. There is no to do list, schedule, or script to follow. Just respect others and be guided by the laws you hold dear. But other than that rest, relax, but most importantly we have to have a blast.

It is your life, do what you want with it. Only one rule, we have to always be able to live with yourself. That is all we have. So treat yourself the best you can, as well as others. Then you will be truly happy all the time.

That is a major point of life to make yourself happy as well as to make others happy.

Love is...

Love is like the sun. Dilemmas are the same as clouds, no matter how cloudy it gets the sun always breaks through. No matter how problematic life gets love always survives.

However if hatred or problems do not exist, love would not be so strong.

Every positive needs its negative to exist. Positives, however don't always know that negatives exist. They do not know the quality or amount they are of either.

Sometimes positives are unprepared for the conflicts that negative will make.

That is why strength in numbers is so important. However sometimes there is too much of a certain group of positives as well as negatives that nothing could occur.

These crises occur more or less than the amount of situations that exist. If this occurs too much there is no progress that will be achieved. Life’s vary essence is defined by the amount of progress made within a given occurrence of time.

This is when growth occurs. Growth makes us better equipped to deal with the improvements that naturally occurs within life.